To reduce sibling rivalry after the birth of a new sibling, what is recommended?

To reduce sibling rivalry after the birth of a new sibling, what is recommended?

• A. Set aside extra time to spend with the older child
• B. Tell the older child that he or she is no longer a baby and can wait until needs are met
• C. Not tolerate any regression on the part of the older child
• D. Not allow the older child to touch the infant under any circumstances

Answer: (A)

Setting aside extra time to spend with the older child directly supports the emotional need for attention and security that often drives sibling rivalry when a new baby arrives. When parental focus shifts to the infant, the older child may worry they’re being replaced. Regular one-on-one time helps the older child feel seen, valued, and connected, which reduces competition for parental attention. Keep this time predictable with short, consistent moments—like a special story routine or a mini outing—so the child knows they are a priority. Involve the older child in age-appropriate baby care under supervision to foster a sense of contribution and belonging, and use positive reinforcement for calm, cooperative behavior with the baby. Provide space for feelings, listen to concerns, and validate their emotions as part of the family’s adjustment. Telling the older child they are no longer a baby and must wait can convey that their needs are unimportant, which increases resentment. Assuming there will be no regression ignores normal developmental responses to change. Prohibiting touch with the infant removes opportunities for bonding and can heighten fear or jealousy; supervised involvement helps both children adjust and connect.

Setting aside extra time to spend with the older child directly supports the emotional need for attention and security that often drives sibling rivalry when a new baby arrives. When parental focus shifts to the infant, the older child may worry they’re being replaced. Regular one-on-one time helps the older child feel seen, valued, and connected, which reduces competition for parental attention. Keep this time predictable with short, consistent moments—like a special story routine or a mini outing—so the child knows they are a priority. Involve the older child in age-appropriate baby care under supervision to foster a sense of contribution and belonging, and use positive reinforcement for calm, cooperative behavior with the baby. Provide space for feelings, listen to concerns, and validate their emotions as part of the family’s adjustment.

Telling the older child they are no longer a baby and must wait can convey that their needs are unimportant, which increases resentment. Assuming there will be no regression ignores normal developmental responses to change. Prohibiting touch with the infant removes opportunities for bonding and can heighten fear or jealousy; supervised involvement helps both children adjust and connect.