Which strategy is recommended to reduce sibling rivalry when a new infant enters the family?

Which strategy is recommended to reduce sibling rivalry when a new infant enters the family?

• A. Set aside extra time to spend with the older child
• B. Tell the older child that he or she is no longer a baby
• C. Not tolerate any regression from the older child
• D. Not allow the older child to touch the infant

Answer: (A)

Setting aside extra time with the older child helps reduce rivalry by preserving the child’s sense of security and ensuring they still feel valued and connected to a parent. When a new infant arrives, parental attention naturally shifts; dedicated one-on-one time gives the older child a predictable, special role and a safe space to express feelings, ask questions, and participate in age-appropriate caregiving. This reassurance lowers jealousy and helps the older child bond with the baby rather than feel sidelined. Telling the older child they are no longer a baby can send the message that their current needs and status are being erased, which can heighten insecurity and resistance. Regression is a normal response to big life changes, and responding with patience and support—rather than demanding no signs of need—helps the child adapt. Loosening the opportunity to touch or interact with the infant deprives the older child of bonding experiences and can increase tension at a time when family harmony is most important.

Setting aside extra time with the older child helps reduce rivalry by preserving the child’s sense of security and ensuring they still feel valued and connected to a parent. When a new infant arrives, parental attention naturally shifts; dedicated one-on-one time gives the older child a predictable, special role and a safe space to express feelings, ask questions, and participate in age-appropriate caregiving. This reassurance lowers jealousy and helps the older child bond with the baby rather than feel sidelined.

Telling the older child they are no longer a baby can send the message that their current needs and status are being erased, which can heighten insecurity and resistance. Regression is a normal response to big life changes, and responding with patience and support—rather than demanding no signs of need—helps the child adapt. Loosening the opportunity to touch or interact with the infant deprives the older child of bonding experiences and can increase tension at a time when family harmony is most important.